CT, eh? You're right around the corner. Don't tempt Me, lady, with your DD's -- My DDD's want to dominate them already. But frankly I'm nothing to look at at the moment (very overweight) and I'd probably make your eyes fall out of the sockets, not to mention my girlfriend/sub would be liable to hurt you in a jealous rage....
But seriously, with those specs, you should have no trouble finding a Dom/me. Have you tried CollarMe and FetLife, too? They may be helpful in finding someone in your area.