I think I was precocious, although not "overly" so (whatever the fuck that is.) I know that I really always liked sex a lot. Some light bondage (bandannas and things) worked their way into my repertoire fairly early on and I think I've always had a tendency to at least "top" in sexual situations (in both the 'take charge' sense, and the butt-fucking sense) and guys have generally responded really well to that. I think I fought that tendency a lot though, under the impression that it made me "weird."

I've been through some fairly significant life changes, where the lifestyle and scene had to take a back seat to more pressing issues, so it's really more recently that I've decided to just- roll with what my natural inclination is. I'm lucky to have a partner who is just that- my partner in crime and pleasure, and fun and games, and all the other things that come with life, who has been nudging me to just- be who I am for about three years now. I'm much happier for it.