Wired in reverse?

[pixie_piper]

i'm new to the board but if i may say so, would half of U(u)s really enjoy BDSM quite so much if it wasn't at least a little taboo? Alot of the thrill would be gone. Sure, it's frustrating that other people don't understand or accept what W(w)e do, but in the end i know i personally wouldn't have it any other way. i get crap because i "set the feminist movement back 50 years every time i pick up His dry clean," but i just smile and laugh to myself that they don't know how those clothes got dirty in the first place ;-)

[thir]

i'm new to the board but if i may say so, would half of U(u)s really enjoy BDSM quite so much if it wasn't at least a little taboo? Alot of the thrill would be gone.

Hi and welcome to the board :-)
Well, as for me, I would really like it to me just as acceptable as other non-harmful human behaviour! It makes for far too many problems this way, not least if you have kids.
I can only say that the times I have been on events/camps with like minded people have been like coming home, and many depped something awful when they had to get back!

Sure, it's frustrating that other people don't understand or accept what W(w)e do, but in the end i know i personally wouldn't have it any other way. i get crap because i "set the feminist movement back 50 years every time i pick up His dry clean," but i just smile and laugh to myself that they don't know how those clothes got dirty in the first place ;-)

Fortunately there are a lot of bdsm feminists about ;-))

[leo9]

i'm new to the board but if i may say so, would half of U(u)s really enjoy BDSM quite so much if it wasn't at least a little taboo? Alot of the thrill would be gone.

For you, maybe; I know there are people who don't feel anything's sexy unless it's dirty and hidden. I had an on line friend who used the sigline "If sex isn't sick and disgusting, you're not doing it right."

Not for me. I'd rather live in cultures (like the Danes) who treat sex as just another part of life, and I'd be even happier if they were as cool about BDSM.