why is the bdsm scene so narrow??

[lucyboy]

Namaste to you to, I haven't generalised apart from when I used the word ALL which I later retracted.

I still think you are applying double standards.

No one is putting a gun to the head of a submissive woman who is with a guy who exploits her but you wouldn't be so uncaring about another woman in a situation like that would you.

You would probably tell her yourself that she is worth more and she should kick the bum to the curb.

So why do you have a problem with what I'm saying???? It's not so different..

[Dragon's muse]

Namaste to you to, I haven't generalised apart from when I used the word ALL which I later retracted.

I still think you are applying double standards.

No one is putting a gun to the head of a submissive woman who is with a guy who exploits her but you wouldn't be so uncaring about another woman in a situation like that would you.

You would probably tell her yourself that she is worth more and she should kick the bum to the curb.

Actually, if she is voluntarily in whatever situation and not complaining, i would tell her no such thing. If she complained about it, i would tell her to either get out or stop complaining. i would say that to anyone in any unpleasant situation -- either change it or accept it. i found out a long time ago that unsolicited relationship advice is usually not well received.


So why do you have a problem with what I'm saying???? It's not so different..

OK, i'm done here. You are 100% right. Have a wonderful life.