The scene is as narrow or as broad as you wish.

Although it is becoming easier for women to express dominance, it is usually difficult as it appears "normal" for women to be passive and that's what we are subtly taught from a young age.

Perhaps the relationship comes first? And then the trust so you are comfortable to reveal desires.

I discovered my dominance through my first husband and it opened up a world that I didn't know existed! Now, could not imagine being the passive one in a relationship!