BDSM and former child abuse victim

[Flaming_Redhead]

Sex doesn't always have to mirror what happens in the whole relationship. There are times of sweet lovemaking, but I prefer hair pulling and dirty talk because it really turns me on to be his slutty little ass fuck. The rest of the time, there isn't name-calling because that would just be hurtful and serve no good purpose. In fact, he does his best to ensure that I feel good about myself, even when I know I have wronged him.

You were disrespectful to everyone here by making assumptions about whether or not we're conscious of what we're doing and whether or not we know what happiness is. Everyone's entitled to their opinions, but I felt that what you said was not in the spirit of open discussion but rather argumentative and narrow-minded.

I tolerate different opinions. What I don't tolerate is disrespect. In the future, you might want to try not coming across as preaching that we must all be ignorant, angry, depressed, unhappy people who seek out abuse because we don't know what love is.

[Veronika]

You were disrespectful to everyone here by making assumptions about whether or not we're conscious of what we're doing and whether or not we know what happiness is.

You represent everyone? And again those reactions are on your responsibility. You chose to be offended by a post of someone who has different views. If you were totally comfortable about your views you wouldn't have cared.

[SubmissiveDoll]

The only response this gets is... WOW... This is the equivalent of saying "Nu Uh!" The fact that people get offend has NOTHING to do with whether or not they are comfortable with their views. I'm comfortable wearing jeans, if someone gave me shit about that, I'd bitch them out too.

You represent everyone? And again those reactions are on your responsibility. You chose to be offended by a post of someone who has different views. If you were totally comfortable about your views you wouldn't have cared.