I don't know if you're deliberately misunderstanding me. I've been a member here for a couple of years, and I like this community a lot. I stand up for myself, and I stand up for my friends. Hell, I'll stand up for people I don't know if I perceive that someone is being unfair or judgmental. Believe me, I am completely comfortable with my views and my choice of lifestyle. I am quite open about it. Half of my family knows, and the other half who I know for a fact wouldn't even try to understand has no idea because I don't go out of my way to offend people or freak them out. If you want tolerance and acceptance here, you have to show some.