Who/what brought out the inner sub in you

[Lisais mine]

Looking back on one of my vanilla relationships, I can see how it was borderline D/s. My ex used to tell me how to dress, who to talk to, etc. But he wasn't a Dom. He was just an ass-hat.

After that I went into another vanilla relationship where I almost went for the exact opposite kind of man and ended up mostly controlling him.

Now, with Mia'Cova... I can see what I was looking for. Someone who lovingly dominates me, but also allows me (encourages me!) to be myself. He inspires me to be more than I ever was before, pushes me to be more. He wants me to succeed and wants a partner for this life. We may have a D/s relationship, but we are equals. He has allowed me to submit, and it is just as much a gift for me as it was for Him.

but that is the way it is supposed to be, pet. You and i are a wonderful pair. you make me whole and able to rise to another level.