I'd always wished my first husband was more forceful, but it never crossed my mind that I might like something more than that, until I was at a Hustler store and saw a pink and black crop and just had to have it. XH never once used it on me. I guess he thought it was just a joke.

Right after we split up, I had a threesome with a couple who gave me my first real spanking (with that very crop!) and that was all it took. I was hooked. The first time I had sex with my now-husband, he grabbed a handful of my hair, forced me to my knees, and said, "Suck it, bitch." I think I fell in love with him at that moment. *Disclaimer - we had talked before and he knew I was interested in trying D/s, so he wasn't just being a dick. Since then my husband has led me down a wonderful path, pushing me farther than I knew possible. Our collection has grown from that single humble crop to include a paddle, two whips, a pinwheel, and various other implements. I can't get enough!

I don't know that I would have found this path without my husband. Our personalities fit together so perfectly. Of course, trust has so much to do with it. I trust him so much and I don't think I could have that level of trust with someone else.